Wake up the kids
This method is incorrect for waking up children:
1. Pull blankets, quilts, quilts over them.
2-Sprinkling water on them.
3- Repeatedly saying "get up, get up" in a loud voice.
4-Let them curse. To utter sarcastic and obscene phrases as if throwing stones.
5- Making threats. "If you don't come out in two minutes, I'll do this, I'll do that.
All this falls under the category of being rude.
What is the harm in doing so? Children are absorbing this culture drop by drop. For this situation, they are simply trained to exhibit "this" attitude and behavior when faced with an anti-expectation and anti-emotional situation. They will raise their children in the same way, and so this "civilizational heritage" will be passed down from generation to generation.
What is the correct method? First, practice self-discipline by giving up the desire and habit of disciplining children in this way. See where the fault is?
Are you not doing anything wrong? Did Amr Bhabbat manage to reach Bharsim at the right time?
Do you and the kids go to bed at the right time?
Or is the system of the house absolutely loose, unruly type in which there is no order, no discipline in any matter?
You don't have to turn your house into a cadet college, but a few
Rules and regulations. ?
Have you taught/instructed the children to 'get up' when vocalizing following the 'gradual' principle? What is mental preparation for a discipline? Are you following the correct behavior in this matter yourself?
Secondly, if it is a problem in children then follow the psychological formula of saying 'already' in this case. Give a sequence. Have a conversation. Set a 'rising code' with the children about how to get up in the morning. In a spirited way!
Now how practically? Before going to bed at night: In a very serious tone: "It's fifty minutes past 9. Only ten minutes to go. Lie down, and before you say a prayer, tell me what to do when Mama calls in the morning. Repeat." Shahish."
(smiling): Not getting up at the first sound. Just come back from sleep to the real world baby.
You: And on the other voice?
Children: Do not wake up at the second sound. Rather, change the crotch, prepare your mind, and wait for the third voice.
You: Good. Then?
Baby: On the third sound, take your hand out of the blanket and raise it towards mama or papa, that is, whoever comes to wake you up. And sit up. Then
You: Then?
Children: First of all, if you are muslim the dua should be recited Al-Hamdulillah al-Hiya Awsana, then Ma Amatna and Iliyah Al-Nashwar, but if you are not then one should sit for a full minute, do not stand up immediately, this is medically harmful. In the meantime, greet whoever is in front of you.
You: Then? Children: Then stand up
In the morning, perform the same sequence yourself:
1- Come near and call in a soft voice.
2- Your voice should not be too flattering and flattering, and not too serious and spotty or sarcastic.
3- Tap the baby's head and cheeks lightly to bring him back from sleep. Say, "hurry up son" and raise your hand on his head . Then move away.
4- Second voice three to five, after seven minutes, from far "Farhan, get up son after second time." Lips and tone from the mouthl Peasant or normal.
5-coming for the third time, telling the time: "Farhan, come, son. You went to the washroom before Ayesha. This is the third time. Come on, take your hand out."
Babies will graze at first. Gradually the order will be made.
6-When the children come back from school, or at dinner, or before going to bed at night, you ask in a positive tone, "Who followed the code of rising today?" .
This question itself is a criticism. In this way, communicate gently and seriously. Gradually the children will tune in. Improvement should come every day. And eventually all this will become the culture of this house. Will last for generations. little by little
What is the summary?
Not at the right time! . From before, from behind. Prayers for mental preparation, arrangement, gradualness, self-action, patience and perseverance
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